1. You can’t influence those you judge

2. Care more about how I feel about x than how X feels about me

3. You can’t be manipulated unless you want or need some thing from that person

4. Suffering is optional

5. Love wins

6. Love yourself

7. I have all of his wisdom and goodness inside of me

8. My tears are for me

9. If I believe your days are numbered, I don’t have to play the What if game or worry about the future

10. My beliefs Create my reality, that is the job of my unconscious mind.

11. Victim versus empowered, I am responsible for my response, which creates the outcomes I call reality