If you’ve had five decades to become the man of my dreams and you haven’t done it yet,

Please don’t think you’re gonna sell me on your potential.

Sincerely,

Eyes wide open

Let’s talk about logic and love.

My goal is to quickly identify who is not right for me early on

Responsible gun ownership is very sexy to me.

If you don’t carry, I probably don’t wanna date you. This is basic, man protects woman. My husband had his LTC, and he would’ve laid his life down for me in a heartbeat.

I am about as far away from liberal as one can get. This poses a problem in the dating world but it’s not really a problem because I’m only looking for one and it narrows it down faster.

Must be unvaccinated from Covid .

I will not tolerate any addiction to nicotine, alcohol, porn, etc.

The list for my ideal mate is much longer but this is the foundation. If you’ve been divorced,more than once, it’s not likely I would consider you either.

As a profession, an entrepreneur is ideal, maybe a small business owner, not necessarily a CEO or CFO or the president of a company, but a God-fearing, freedom loving entrepreneur. If you were raised like a cowboy, that would be a bonus. Entrepreneurism is what made America great, and is the only way out of this mess, I believe.

If you talk bad about your ex, I don’t care if she was Corella Deville, you’re probably a no go for me. That signifies that you are not healed. She might have been as evil as all that, but there is a way to speak about her that will honor her and you and me.

I want to know about your relationship with Jesus and money.

I also want to know the extent of brainwashing you have in regards to your reality, aka the matrix and how well you can describe that throughout American history. I am particularly interested in how you interpret the recent medical Holocaust.

I’m not looking for someone who is a Sunday American Christian. I want to see how it impacts your daily life and decisions. I am looking for a man who is spirit filled risk-taking demon slayer world changer Patriotic freedom fighter, fearless in the face of battle. must be Mature masculine: both powerful and loving, Secure and decisive, not fearful or people pleaser, assertive.

Again, If you had approximately five decades to become the man of my dreams, and you haven’t done it yet, don’t think you’re gonna sell me on your potential. I don’t hear a word you say, but I believe everything you do.

I only care about your track record.

My track record speaks for itself.

Additionally, dating me, will probably be like a job interview.

My preference is to marry another widow because no one else can understand your pain and that way you don’t have messy divorces to drain your energy going forward.

If you don’t live a healthy lifestyle already, you’re also a definite no.

I am not looking to be someone’s happiness. If you’re not happy already, you’re a no go too.

I am happy with my life, and I love myself, and it is out of the overflow that I wish to welcome a partner to magnify the good we can accomplish. One can slay a thousand and two 10,000. And we got a lot of slaying to do.

If you have kids at home, that’s fine by me. If you have grandkids, that’s a huge plus to me.

I know what my husband wants for me and I won’t settle.

I am confident the one who I will complete and who will complete me, Is out there looking and Praying for me like I am for him.

Recently, I have had the valuable life experience of getting too close to a narcissist, and getting a little singed before I came to my senses. If you looked up the word, narcissist in the dictionary, the antonym would read Todd Snyder.

naturally this surprised me when I came out of my stupor, but I am so much wiser, and I thank God for the lesson. I learned I can trust myself in my intuition, and I saw the grace of God all over me and it grew my faith and built my trust in the goodness of God. It also gave me compassion for my girlfriend, who got trapped by the charming witty, winsome, charismatic, funny grandiose narcissist in disguise.

I am really hoping you have a great sense of humor, because I really like to laugh!

I am your girl for spontaneous romantic adventures!

I’m not just looking for a provider and protector, a mature masculine presence of power and love, companionship, romance and sex, although it’s all wrapped inside. I could live with just about any man with a good heart and I know I’d make him a very very happy man and a better version of himself. I am looking for the one I cannot live without, the one who multiplies my happiness.

When I find him, I will snatch him up and never let him go.

A wife of virtuous character who can find?

Her price is far above rubies.

She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

#awaitingmyboaz